Aligned Living in Every Season

How slowing down, being seen, and living on purpose can change everything

Have you ever looked up and realized you’ve been moving so fast or have been so busy that you can’t even remember the last time you even checked in with yourself?

We all go through seasons—some are full-speed-ahead, others feel more like a quiet pause. But here’s what I’ve learned (and am still learning): every season has something to teach us if we’re willing to slow down and actually listen.

photographer self portrait in studio new braunfels texas  / Photo by Erin Valkner Photography of New Braunfels, Texas. See more at www.erinvalknerphotography.com/blog

Right now, summer is doing that for me.

Our schedule is different with school being out, the days are longer, the mornings a bit slower, there’s less; everything feels just a little more open—like a quiet invitation to stop rushing and start living.

Not someday. Not when everything’s perfect.

But now. As I am.

Normally, I’d ramp up and fill the schedule with things to do just to keep busy. 

But right now, I’m choosing something different.

I’m being very intentional and taking time to reflect, to review, to audit—not just my to-do list, but goals, my business, everything.

How I spend my time, how I show up in my work, whether my daily habits actually line up with the vision I’ve set for myself.

It’s a practice in alignment, and honestly, it’s bringing so much clarity.

And peace.

Aligned Living Isn’t About Having It All Together

Here’s something I’ve had to learn the hard way: aligned living doesn’t mean you’re doing everything “right.”

It means you’re paying attention. You’re tuning in. You’re choosing what actually feels good and true for you in this chapter.

You are living intentionally and being in the driver’s seat of your life.  No more autopilot.

That might mean simplifying your schedule. Saying no more often. Wearing clothes that feel like you again. Or finally booking the photos you’ve been putting off because you didn’t feel “ready.”

Can I tell you a secret?

You don’t have to be “ready.”

You just have to be willing to show up. 

photographer / woman smiling seated studio branding photo - new braunfels Texas / Photo by Erin Valkner Photography of New Braunfels, Texas. See more at www.erinvalknerphotography.com/blog

That’s one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned since starting my business ten years ago…

It’s that successful people are never really 100% ready, it’s just that they choose to figure out a way and learn as they go. 


Showing up is the key. Really, it’s showing up in a way that’s aligned with what you believe and want, not what others think you should do or be.

That’s the mindset shift that’s changed everything for me—and for so many of the women I work with. It’s less about achieving and more about aligning.

 

Less perfection, more presence. And honestly, the transformation that happens when you decide to be seen as you are? It’s magic.

 

Photography as a Way to Reconnect with What Matters

One of the most powerful tools I know for reconnecting with your life is surprisingly simple: getting in front of the camera.

 

I don’t mean a forced, overly posed session. I’m talking about intentional photography that captures what’s real—your energy, your relationships, your growth.

 

Whether it’s updated brand photos that match how you’re showing up in your work, a portrait session that honors your life and motherhood, or a powerfully transformational boudoir session that celebrates you and your body without needing to change it first… these images can help change the way you see yourself. 

 

Photos have this way of saying:
“This moment matters. You matter. Just as you are now.”

And maybe even more importantly—they help us remember that later, when the season has shifted again.

 

branding photo of female photographer holding camera in studio new braunfels texas  / Photo by Erin Valkner Photography of New Braunfels, Texas. See more at www.erinvalknerphotography.com/blog

This Is Your Sign to Get in the Frame

So whether you’re:

  • shifting your business or personal brand and want visuals that reflect who you are now,

  • craving images that document your motherhood or your journey through this season of life,

  • or saying yes to loving yourself and celebrating your body—not “when…,” but NOW.

Let this be your reminder: you don’t need a milestone to be photographed.


Your life is worth remembering, just as it is.

 

Let this also be a reminder to check in with yourself every season to stay aligned and not go on autopilot – the days are long but the years are short, my friend!

 

Let’s Make This Season One You Remember

If you’ve been feeling the pull to live more intentionally, this is your invitation to slow down, take a deep breath, and say yes to something that feels aligned with who you are right now.

Photography is just one piece of the puzzle—but it’s a powerful one. It’s about being seen, being honest, and being present with your own story.

So whenever you're ready, I’m here. From planning out a photoshoot to celebrate who you are now, to helping you find clarity in your life or business - sorting out the overwhelm and feeling  more aligned with what matters most.

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